Greetings All,
Let's talk about having enough.
Enough is a really big deal.
It has boundaries.
It has borders.
It almost has some geographical properties.
ENOUGH is when you open the pantry and you have what you need to make the meal you want to make.
ENOUGH is when you have the ability to have choices about what you can cook.
ENOUGH is when you use the last of the toilet paper and you don't panic cause there is another roll left.
ENOUGH is when there is gas in the car and you don't have to anticipate if you can get somewhere without running out.
ENOUGH is when you need to go the doctor and can pay the office visit charge right then.
ENOUGH is when you can share whatever you have without causing harm to your own family or self.
ENOUGH is comfortable.
But there are other places: TOO LITTLE and TOO MUCH
TOO LITTLE is when you reach for something and it is not there.
TOO LITTLE is when you are hungry...be it mentally, physically, emotionally, socially, or faith starved.
TOO LITTLE is when you look at others and yearn for things you see them with.
TOO LITTLE is sad, and lonely, and desperate sometimes.
TOO LITTLE and TOO MUCH are close cousins.
TOO MUCH is when things begin to overflow and you have no place to put them.
TOO MUCH is when you feel entitled and lazy...mentally, physically, emotionally, socially... and when you grow lethargic in your faith.
TOO MUCH is when your possessions, or your job, or your life begins to get too heavy for you to bear.
TOO LITTLE and TOO MUCH are difficult geographic places to thrive in.
God, thank you for ENOUGH.
Please keep us from TOO LITTLE and TOO MUCH.
Thank you for loving us and blessing us.
Help us to share your love with all we meet.
AMEN
In Him,
Grace
The Reward for Surviving Rough Seas
We are all like sea shells tossed about in rough waters and being re-shaped in wondrous ways. But have you ever contemplated the notion that sea shells have to complete their journey through the rough waters before they get to rest on the shore? Yeah, we are ALL like sea shells and Heaven is The Great Shore.
Showing posts with label Choices. Show all posts
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Friday, December 16, 2011
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Student D's Mama and the Phone Call
Greeting Everybody.
This morning I want to talk about something pretty cool that happened yesterday.
It's about a young African American student of mine and a phone call that I had yesterday with her mama.
Here's a bit of the background on this one:
-This young woman is very polished, very intelligent, and very pretty, and an
accomplished musician.
-She has poise, dignity and a great wardrobe.
-But she has few friends, an unsmiling face, and ensconces herself in a rather snooty
image.
It's VERY rare for her to smile or deign to verbally engage with one of the "Lesser-lings" in the class.
And I have wondered all year long where such an attitude could have come from.
She is an ice block!
There have been times when I have been able to break through, so that I have seen the child within, but she keeps herself so very removed from the human dynamic 99.9 % of the time.
So, the other day, she created a visual aid to go with a speech presentation and it was a little bit disturbing.
The Title of the Speech is The 4 Corners Speech
I tell my students that the world will always try to bring us down and that it is important to know where our strengths come from.
In this assignment they take a blank sheet of paper, divide it into 4 quadrants and then place an image in each one:
-the most important symbol of your life,
-the most healing color to your mind,
-the most important word or phrase of your life,
-and most important person in your life.
I take the time to tell the kids that this is NOT something superficial and that the images selected should be so deeply ingrained in you that they would be suitable to be carved in your own headstone.
This assignment is designed to lead students to identify their own core support structures, so that in times of stress and hardship they know where to turn.
But student D did not identify her support structures.
She did not pick someone she even knows.
She selected a celebrity.
She selected Lady Gaga.
Now I have spoken with this young ladies parents and I know she comes from a Christian Home.
Her parents are faithful Christian men and women.
She has been raised in a God loving and God following him.
Though my students are able to express themselves freely as long as what they create is school appropriate, I was shocked at what I DIDN'T see on this kids visual aid.
Her values were non-existent.
Her sources of strength were fleeting.
Her imagery was worldly.
There was a big gap between the values in her home and the values that she turns to.
Where was the symbol of the Cross on her paper?
Where was the verse of scripture, or the word GOD, that was used for her most important phrase or word?
The artwork was carefully and beautifully rendered, but it was devoid of anything substantive.
I waited a few days to talk with this young lady about her choices, and I pulled her out in the hallway when I did so. There was nothing punitive about the conversation, she was not in trouble....I approached her from a position of just being curious about her artwork.
She was real with me in the hallway.
And everything I saw told me that she was rejecting her family, her faith, and almost everything about the life she knows at home.
BUT she did go home and tell her mother that we had had this conversation
(which to my mind is a VERY good sign;there is still a good connection with mom).
And yesterday the young lady told me that her Mama wanted me to call her.
So, I called her mom.
And her mom shared with me that she was scared for her daughter, and asked me what I am seeing, and if I am seeing things that concern me.
We had THE BEST talk.
It was Parent to Teacher...but it was also Mama to Mama, and even better it was Christian Woman to Christian Woman.
We are both very concerned about this little girl...and we are both on the same page on this one: The Evil One is Trying to Pull Her Away From Her Faith
He is separating her from her family and its values and from her God and His Standards.
This weighed so much on my heart that a few hours later I called the mom back.
And this was the BEST PART OF MY DAY>>>I asked that mom if she was comfortable with us praying for her daughter.
The mom was very receptive
And so yesterday, for the first time in my career, in a parent phone call, from inside my classroom, with only a soft lamp at my desk turned on, I prayed with the mother of one of my students on the phone.
This was a powerful prayer.
It was from my the bottom of my soul.
It was deep and it was genuine and when I was done, I was crying.
It was beautiful
The mom and I were both crying
TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
God is alive and well in public schools today.
Prayer is practiced every day.
It may not be lead over the Public Address system, but it happens all the time.
And I am blessed because of it.
Just thought I'd share that with you guys.
In Him,
Grace
This morning I want to talk about something pretty cool that happened yesterday.
It's about a young African American student of mine and a phone call that I had yesterday with her mama.
Here's a bit of the background on this one:
-This young woman is very polished, very intelligent, and very pretty, and an
accomplished musician.
-She has poise, dignity and a great wardrobe.
-But she has few friends, an unsmiling face, and ensconces herself in a rather snooty
image.
It's VERY rare for her to smile or deign to verbally engage with one of the "Lesser-lings" in the class.
And I have wondered all year long where such an attitude could have come from.
She is an ice block!
There have been times when I have been able to break through, so that I have seen the child within, but she keeps herself so very removed from the human dynamic 99.9 % of the time.
So, the other day, she created a visual aid to go with a speech presentation and it was a little bit disturbing.
The Title of the Speech is The 4 Corners Speech
I tell my students that the world will always try to bring us down and that it is important to know where our strengths come from.
In this assignment they take a blank sheet of paper, divide it into 4 quadrants and then place an image in each one:
-the most important symbol of your life,
-the most healing color to your mind,
-the most important word or phrase of your life,
-and most important person in your life.
I take the time to tell the kids that this is NOT something superficial and that the images selected should be so deeply ingrained in you that they would be suitable to be carved in your own headstone.
This assignment is designed to lead students to identify their own core support structures, so that in times of stress and hardship they know where to turn.
But student D did not identify her support structures.
She did not pick someone she even knows.
She selected a celebrity.
She selected Lady Gaga.
Now I have spoken with this young ladies parents and I know she comes from a Christian Home.
Her parents are faithful Christian men and women.
She has been raised in a God loving and God following him.
Though my students are able to express themselves freely as long as what they create is school appropriate, I was shocked at what I DIDN'T see on this kids visual aid.
Her values were non-existent.
Her sources of strength were fleeting.
Her imagery was worldly.
There was a big gap between the values in her home and the values that she turns to.
Where was the symbol of the Cross on her paper?
Where was the verse of scripture, or the word GOD, that was used for her most important phrase or word?
The artwork was carefully and beautifully rendered, but it was devoid of anything substantive.
I waited a few days to talk with this young lady about her choices, and I pulled her out in the hallway when I did so. There was nothing punitive about the conversation, she was not in trouble....I approached her from a position of just being curious about her artwork.
She was real with me in the hallway.
And everything I saw told me that she was rejecting her family, her faith, and almost everything about the life she knows at home.
BUT she did go home and tell her mother that we had had this conversation
(which to my mind is a VERY good sign;there is still a good connection with mom).
And yesterday the young lady told me that her Mama wanted me to call her.
So, I called her mom.
And her mom shared with me that she was scared for her daughter, and asked me what I am seeing, and if I am seeing things that concern me.
We had THE BEST talk.
It was Parent to Teacher...but it was also Mama to Mama, and even better it was Christian Woman to Christian Woman.
We are both very concerned about this little girl...and we are both on the same page on this one: The Evil One is Trying to Pull Her Away From Her Faith
He is separating her from her family and its values and from her God and His Standards.
This weighed so much on my heart that a few hours later I called the mom back.
And this was the BEST PART OF MY DAY>>>I asked that mom if she was comfortable with us praying for her daughter.
The mom was very receptive
And so yesterday, for the first time in my career, in a parent phone call, from inside my classroom, with only a soft lamp at my desk turned on, I prayed with the mother of one of my students on the phone.
This was a powerful prayer.
It was from my the bottom of my soul.
It was deep and it was genuine and when I was done, I was crying.
It was beautiful
The mom and I were both crying
TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
God is alive and well in public schools today.
Prayer is practiced every day.
It may not be lead over the Public Address system, but it happens all the time.
And I am blessed because of it.
Just thought I'd share that with you guys.
In Him,
Grace
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